Frequently Asked Questions
We answer any questions that are often asked by the community. We shed some light that can help further understand our process for our resources.
Why are there no calculator for personality traits?
Your personality by itself is not enough to determine if you’re high value for either male or female. Another reason is that each human has different preferences in someone's personality, it would be nearly impossible to create an accurate calculator for someone’s personality. Your actions speak louder than what you say about yourself. We viewed many other dating calculators in the market in which they ask about your personality. We avoided it because we can often lie to ourselves about who we are. We found that actions made better predictability compared to self-praising.
Why do men and women have different metrics and results?
Men and women look for different things in their partners. It all stems from the biology of how men and women interact with each other. In most cases, a woman wants a man who has the strength and knowledge to make a living and provide security while men want women with as much purity, fertility, and support. If neither sexes provide those values, then they will not be potential candidates for long-term dating. While women have standards to who they date, men have standards to who they marry.
Why can’t men and women just love each other for who they are?
Men and women can love each other for who they are. To put it simply, the probability of a woman and a man to fall in love with each other is what they are valued for. There will only be a minority where a woman can fall in love with a man who lives with their parents, smokes weed, and plays video games, but that doesn’t mean it's good life advice to pursue that. Same for the other way around, There will only be a tiny minority where a man will date a career woman who’s 20 years older than him making more money financially. Yet again it’s not the best life advice for the majority of either the man or women because that is not what gives us that biological instinct of love. Love comes from the value you hold to the opposite sex. If you can’t bring that value, then you’re not worthy of being loved by someone of your standards.
I’m 30% marriage material, does this mean I’m not fit for marriage?
Not exactly. You can still have a chance of being married, but the chances of a man you are looking for to be with will be lowered. If you found a man who is equal in value with you—for this example, a 30% value male—then he would be the perfect candidate to marry you because he himself has trouble having options because of his current value.
Why do I have to put in all this effort for a man’s/women’s needs?
In all honesty, you don’t have to. You can continue to pursue your intrinsic needs instead of being valuable to the opposite sex. At the same time, you can’t complain about why nobody wants you. If you want to be wanted, you need to prove that you are wantable.
Why does this site care so much about value?
Without knowing what you are worth and the effects with it, you’ll end up in a spiral of insanity. You’ll spend time on things not worth spending. You’ll continue to be selfish without considering your future investment with a healthy family. You’ll ruin your value without even realizing that you are, and everyone around you will encourage it despite what your future spouse will think otherwise.
